How To Be Smooth When Talking To Girls

How To Be Smooth When Talking To Girls


This is Tripp from Tripp Advice.com and
today we’re talking about how to be smooth with girls. When you’re first learning how
to get better with women and dating it’s easy to be very choppy and make a lot of mistakes.
Of course this is completely normal but it’s best if you can learn how to make things go
smoothly. That way, you come off more attractive and confident which is what girls are looking
for in a man. Today, I’m going to give you some easy techniques to be more smooth in
conversation and your overall approach. First, I want to give you my PDF of my list of “33
Conversation Starters”. This will help you start a conversation in a smooth way. Get
that right here on the screen or in the description below this video. It’s a full list of examples
of what you can say to open up conversation with a girl that you’ve never met. Now,
here’s my first tip in order for you to be more smooth with girls. What I want you
to do is slow down. A lot of guys mess up an interaction with girls because they’re
moving at 100 miles per hour and can’t relax. The best way to do this is to focus on your breathing
as much as you can. Naturally you might be a little nervous when you’re talking to
a girl. Breathing will help relax you and keep a clear mind. I want you to talk slower,
like I’m doing right now. When you slow down your pace of conversation, girls will
follow what you say much easier and it will make you appear ten times more confident.
Think about it. Watch the President of the United States make a speech. Are they talking
super fast? No. They’re clear, concise and enunciate every word that comes out of their
mouth. This will take some practice. You won’t get good at this overnight, but I urge you
to slow everything down and focus on what you’re saying while still paying attention
to the girl that you’re with. Along with this you want to focus on your body language.
You also want to move slow and not make a lot of sudden jerky movements. Think James
Bond. Think Leonardo DiCaprio in the scene in Titanic at dinner. You know what i’m
talking about. He moves with confidence. Meaning, there’s purpose behind his movement. You
can put your hand in your pocket and your other hand can be gesturing while you’re
talking to a girl. And it’s best to keep eye contact the entire time that you’re
talking to her, so she knows you’re paying attention. And looking at her while you speak
also captures her attention. Also, being smooth has to do with being non-reactive. When a
girl teases you, or gives you shit for something, you don’t act defensive. But you tease her back
or act as if it didn’t even bother you at all. Or if you go to kiss a girl and she
pulls back your’e not going to say “Wait, why did you do that? I thought we were having
a good time.” No, instead you act like it almost never happened. Keep talking to her
and try again in another five minutes. Think about it this way; being non-reactive just
means that there’s not an issue happening. Everything’s cool and that you don’t need
validation from the girl that you’re with. Why? Because you already know that you’re
the man and you don’t need to seek approval from others. That is smooth. Another factor
of being smooth is how comfortable you are in a specific environment. If you appear nervous,
not friendly, or shy when you’re around a group of people or a noisy environment,
it will appear unconfident. But imagine for a second you enter a bar or a party or some
sort of rowdy place and you appear as if you can handle your own. You move slow, you smile,
you shake hands with the people that you meet and you enter the room with presence. Even
though there’s hustle and bustle going on around you when you meet a girl you like,
you act as if nothing is happening anywhere except with you two in that moment right there.
Nothing phases you. Now don’t get me wrong. You’re still human of course, you’re not
a robot. You’re not stoic. It’s still good to have energy when you talk to people.
But you’re still in control. For example; an insanely drunk person who might be the
life of the party is very much the opposite of smooth. That’s not the guy that you want
to be. Now let’s go back to conversation again. Remember, when you’re smooth you’re
relaxed, have a calmer energy and focused. In terms of talking to a girl, you want to
make sure conversation goes smoothy. Meaning, you don’t have awkward pauses with “umms”
and “likes”. You’re confident behind the things you say and believe. Let’s set
an example for a second. Let’s say you’re talking to a girl at a bar and she says to
you “So I don’t get it. Are you here alone or something? Where are your friends?” There
are two ways that you can respond to this. You can respond in a weak way and say “Oh,
um my friends? They um, I mean, I don’t know, they’re somewhere. I came alone, but
yeah, I’m not sure.” Okay that was a very exaggerated version of someone who is not
smooth. But I just wanted you to be able to get the point. Here’s how a smooth guy would
respond. “My friends are somewhere around here I’m sure. But what does that matter?
You’re my new friend. I still didn’t catch your name by the way.” Do you see the difference
there? It’s to the point. It’s confident. And it’s not phased by what she’s saying.
Instead, you deliver a witty little response to flirt with her and you keep a strong frame
throughout. That my friend is smooth. If you want to learn more about how to be smooth
with women, then check out my “33 Conversation Starters” and start talking to more women today. Get that free PDF right here on the screen or in the description below. It will
lay out all different kinds of things to say to start a conversation with a woman so you
aren’t frazzled any longer. Press like if you liked the video and subscribe to the channel
because I have more videos coming your way.

79 thoughts on “How To Be Smooth When Talking To Girls

  1. I was looking for a reply to being questioned by a girl where my friends were in a bar – this is perfect! Great video ?

  2. Great tips! It's important to slow down because you make her feel at ease. A great tip for the 33 conversation starters is make an observation of her facial expression so you can connect with her emotions. If there isn't one, make an observation of what's around you and comment on that. Works every time!

  3. Hey Tripp, if she continues to probe and wonder where your friends are (i.e "show me, who're your friends?!" ) what do you do??
    I've met many women that are almost attempt to turn the tables on you. Tough situations

  4. First of all realize that there are 6 billion girls in this world.Second realize you don't need girls for much except for sex and reproduction.Don't allow a girl to hold all the aces,approach them and talk to them as if you don't really need to anyways.If she starts giving you the run around walk away.Be a man.

  5. I like the info you've put into your videos recently. The mini scenarios you use to explain the topic are easy to visualise and everything you say all seems to make sense, to the point where you can imagine the girl wanting more and more of you lol.

    Keep it up!

  6. Enough of this garbage. You got to do this, you got to do that. If the woman does not show any interest, just leave.
    There are plenty of good women out there.

  7. Trip is a cool guy, but he has been watching too many movies. None of this works on women. Just rent a Ferrari and women will flock because they smell MONEY!!!

  8. A modest amount of confidence is the right amount for anyone with any sense, i find idiots to be full of confidence.

  9. I think that's why master hypnotist are so incredibly persuasive because when they speak slowly and smoothly they're able to slide suggestions to the subconscious mind. In my own psychology I think it's the best way to get past the garden of the gate between the conscious and subconscious mind.

  10. Best advice: Remember women are equals, not superior entities ( Although, they may act like it ) Always be yourself and don't try to have fun, let it happen. If you don't be yourself she won't fall for "you". If you try to hard to have fun you'll stress yourself out. Pleasure is paramount. So just relax

  11. Hey Tripp! that's a great video. I'm still following your pieces of advice but I think I'm trying too hard to improve on getting better with woman and so I'm still not getting tangible results, is there any video that you can explain about these kinds of situations? If there's not, would you like to make one and explain what's going on?

  12. Hey trip great vid!!! But one question does it work for teachers that are 25 years old and when you do all these tips and it work can you still keep talking to her when she's comfortable

  13. Tripp please read I have one tip can you make just a few vids for younger kids Iam 13 and had my first kiss with my girls freind it feel so good I can't stop that would be great I will keep my eye out for that vid that's some much your the best helper

  14. well my class mates and also girls know that i'm not someone who is good at flirting or dating girls.i'm nervous and they know it.i've tried before and people around me they have made fun of me because it looked weird to them. what can i do to change that. they respect me as a good boy and with good grades one ,they like me just like friend.when it comes to a deeper relationship they refuse not directly but in other ways.what can i do?

  15. Tripp please help, before u found out about your channel, I was taking to this girl A LOT. What happened is we would talk a lot, she was very interested (this is over texts) she would even sometimes text first, you would think it would go smoothly, right? I thought so as well, recently she started to respond much less, and when she did respond they were very generic, and should would only respond 3-5 times before reading and not responding again. I think I may have come off as annoying but we texted the same amount and I'm very confused, I'd love some advice. Please help me fix this.

  16. I Love ur videos….the unique thing is u tell the process seriously,unlike others who animate and make the issues funny…..thanks very much……

  17. Trip i tried to get the pdf but i couldn't , when i open the email and click confirm new page opens saying confirmation will be send in while.

  18. Hey Tripp, my cousin is gonna introduce me to her group of friends, what should I say to them while my cousin is with us?

  19. Bro if I'm talking to a girl and we get to the point we're Im about to kiss her and she's moves back… I'm out I'm leaving her ass for putting me in that situation

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  21. This video just makes you less smooth with girls, if you start thinking about all this when talking to a girl you will not loook confident and you won't be able to say what you wan cuss you're just hunk about these tips

  22. I have a question when you walk in a room where are you suppose to look do I look strait or look around while walking confidently

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  24. Is this guy serious? You don't need any of this shit to be "smooth" and you damn sure don't wanna try kissing them every five minutes start a conversation smile often pay attention to what they like to talk about and play off of that while adding a little of you're own shit with it the rest will take care of its self

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  26. Actually you just need to listen to the song Smooth Talkin’ by Ninja Sex Party and you’ll know exactly how to talk to women.

  27. Ugh, I'm having trouble finding such slow speech anything but frustrating. Had to watch this at 1.75x speed. I get that girls aren't into guys that race through their sentences, but come on now, this is just ridiculous.

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